Marriage and same-sex marriage

Have marriages and same-sex got internal conflict? Can these conflicts coordinate? From the perspective of a Christian and traditional Chinese civilization,civilization in the concept of marriage,and same-sex found in various fundamental aspects of marriage,there are inherent conflicts that in turn affect the implementation of modern same-sex marriage.Because of these traditional ideas,leading to many gays and lesbians into heterosexual marriage.So,it must be and same-sex in the settlement built on a broad basis,including cohabitation system,including gay marriage system.